肥婆

After the holiday, it is obvious that I have become F.A.T., FAT! After seeing myself in the family pictures, I have to admit, I'm real fat. Before the cny trip, I weighted myself, after cny trip, I weighted myself again! Gosh, I am FOUR kg heavier?! How could that be? Just one week and I gained 4kg? Oh dear, what did I eat? What did I do? I realized I didn't do anything but EAT!!! Gosh.. That day, my colleague saw me and said, oh, I could tell u were enjoying your trip :) you gained weight~ I went T_T

Well, my friends asked me to eat less, my colleagues asked me to take less rice... I am still trying to convince myself to do it but food is the love of my life~

Over the weekend, I ate like dinosaurs again... I can't help it~ I guess in a few months time when u see me, I would be too fat for u to recognize...

Below was my strawberry cheese ice cream with pancake~ yummilicious~ no wonder I am the way I am :p

新年快樂

No matter who u r, where u r,
What u r, how u r.. I just wanna say

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR

新年快樂，萬事如意，心想事成，吉祥如意！！

Airport

It was good fun to come back to Perth for a family reunion..even though it was short, it was incredibly FUN!! F.U.N.!!! I will write a post on it soon...in the mean time, just wanted to mentioned that i tried to copy all my posts from Dian Dian so that i can combine my blog...i thought i didnt write too many of them until i tried to transfer them last week. gosh, i had one too many and i feel like quitting...i will do it next time but i'm afraid i might mix up the new and the old and the new ones got skipped...anyway, pls scroll down just to make sure it's not missed...the last one was at end of january...something abt my new IDOL..hiak hiak hiak..

anyway, today i left Perth airport...only 5am in the morning and it was already crowded..oh well, australia is a little out of the way and it takes long time to go any where...thus, the early flights...after travelling for so many years, I finally realized that airport is the only place that treat everyone the same..well, except if you r the king or minister of the country~ which many of us aren't...

You will wonder what happened! Well, today, when I left Perth airport, from counter service to custom, I have to say they were not the friendly bunch of ppl.. The stupid Asian lady at the counter stopped me and blacklisted me because I was overweight for a few kilos, asked me to weight my hand carry, asked me to throw away stuff, told me I brought more than business class ppl, asked me to repack, asked me to weight my hand carry again for many times! I thought the plane was full! Turned out it was so empty that it didn't matter if you tried to ship the whole cow back! Then before u walked into the immigration, there were officers checking out your bags... The unlucky ones would be told to weight their bags and the unfortunate ones would be told to throw things off.. Then at the custom, the officer asked me to take my gold bracelet off?! Was he kidding me? Guess what? When I was abt to board, the stupid Asian lady (most probably Singaporean from her accent) put a red sign on me and when they scanned my boarding pass, the alarm went off and she wanted to double check I threw away stuff.. Stuff her.. I passed the custom, what was she gonna do? Threw me off the plane? I gave her an annoyed look!

These incidents made me realized that when u r in airport, it doesn't matter who u are, what u are, u just have to listen to the custom and immigration... Airport is another world.. Hahaha..but one thing is, why asian people abroad wanna make things difficult for asian people...if it were Caucasian  i'm sure her attitude would be totally different...本是同根生，想煎何太急~~~ in the end, the plane was half empty!

When I arrived HK to check in that day. Nobody cares how heavy my bags are and nobody cares how many bags I bring in.. Ahhhh, now i know I'm spoilt.... Hehe

Family reunion

This year we spent our cny celebration in Perth.. It was the second time we spent it there are we all left Perth. It was a hot cny.. With 41 degrees every day! When I was high up on the sky, I could already feel the heat.. Yup, this is how I remember Perth. The bushes, the sun, the blue sky, the white sand, blue sea, family, the clean air and of course the HEAT.

This year, we also had everyone there except for families of two brothers.. But it was fun enough coz my aunt and uncle were there too with their family!

On 1st day of new year, we all gather at a sister's place.. We were like hungry ghosts.. Whatever my sis put on the table, they were gone in 5 mins..it was good fun to steal food like that.. Food tasted much better :p guess how many there were of us? 33 altogether..

After that we gambled! Guess what, I lost all my money in 2 mins.. I'm never the gamble material.. Hahaha.. So I used my niece's money to gamble...evil... She lost 7 bucks already but with my mighty hands, we won 4 dollars in the end :p

It was really fun and I love the time we all spent together.. The only thing is, it was too short

Funny Conversation (June 17, 2012)

I had a funny conversation today:

I forgot my online banking username and password, so i called helpdesk in malaysia to help~~ so a polite lady picked up the phone and our conversation went like this:

lady: hello, how may i help you?

Jane: Hi, i forgot my online banking username and would like to check whether you could help me retrieve.

lady verified my details and asked me to input my online banking pin...well, honestly, i couldnt remember much because i hardly used this account..but i do have other HSBC account elsewhere using the same system, so i thought, what the heck, let me try...so i keyed in and error message came up...

Lady: sorry m'dm, your pin number is wrong. please key in again

Jane: sorry miss, i forgot my pin number as well.

Lady: in that case, please go to HSBC website, key in your username and click forgot password and you will be sent an email with reference number. When you have the reference number, please call help desk again

Jane: i see..the problem is, i also don't remember my username @_@

Lady: if that is the case, please key in your pin number and i will retrieve your username for u...

Jane: but i don't remember my pin number...

This reminds me of a video clip from McDull cartoon...piggie and duckie went to a restaurant and asked for fishball noodle and the waiter told piggie fishball and noodles were sold out..piggie was disappointed and asked for fishball ho fun...waiter said there is no fishball...then piggie was disappointed for not having fishball ho fun..so piggie said, then can i have beef ball noodle? waiter said there is no noodle...piggie disappointed again and ask for fishball bee hoon...and it went on and on and on....it's funny..i laughed till i had stomach pain...seem my story today is almost the same...

anyway...the lady was helpful, she just asked me for more detail and gave me my username...i thanked her and she asked if there is any other thing she could help...

Jane: yes...may i ask what is the requirement of password setting?

(my point is: if it's alphabet + digit or purely digits, then i may remember my password)...i'm just lazy to call help desk again..hehe..

Lady: it's alphabet + digit

(i was thinking in my mind...i think i remember my password liao)

Jane: one last question: alphabet is mixture of capital letters?

Lady: no, just alphabets

Jane: i see i see..thank u soooo much for your help

So i tried after the phone call~~ i got it right at the first time of login!! seems like funny questions to people, but they helped me~~ :p

故鄉的思念 (June 10, 2012)

那天妹妹也許感覺到我對故鄉的思念而貼心的為我送上一碗故鄉的禮物。雖然吃不到，聞不到，只看得到，可是我已經心滿意足了。

這是我看了照片的心情。。。故鄉萬歲~~ 

On a day like this (June 3, 2012)

today is a beautiful day~~ i woke up early this morning and decided to have a cup of good coffee and some sandwich for breakfast (actually, i planned to use the "reload card" given by my co as ang pao during CNY...just want to make sure it's not wasted in case it goes expired :p)

the sunshine outside looked so bright :) weather was good..it was not too hot or too cold..just right for today~~ i ventured out and took my starbucks bottle that i bought in HK last year....tada, below was my bfast at star bucks while reading magazine...not so crowded yet because it was still early~~ after that i went to the nearby supermarket to do a small grocery shopping...i needed to buy some eggs, veggie and fruits...i'm not a healthy person because i ate too much meat, so i decided to make a small change on a day like this~~just 3 mins heat type of person, i know >_<

Before i ventured home, i decided to take a short walk to the nearby local stores to get some plants...so i walked through the nice parks with flowers blooming and all types of different colours plant...yes, it's still spring~~ it was a relaxing walk..a short walk turned into a looooong walk coz i miscalculated again..hehehe..but nvm, i needed some exercise after such heavy breakfast!!! after 20 - 30 mins walk, i found myself arriving at an unknown place~~ it's really local...and has many local stores and a wet market!!! i didnt know~~ oh, this is really really interesting, so i shopped again at the local store and bought some cheap kitchen ware...something that would cost CNY5 in carrefour is only CNY2 here!! wow...then i saw this plum (杨梅) that i wanted to buy last week and was scared away by the price..but here, it was cheap so i bought 500g... then i bought 3 small green plants from the florist~~ i love them so much coz they are so greenie~~~i will plant them with all my love :D

Look how they spice up my place~~

快樂就這麼簡單 (June 2, 2012)

這是那天在泰國拍的照片。那時候我們到一個孤兒院幫忙。說也奇怪，右邊這個小女孩第一眼看到我的時候就跑過來抱著我不放 。然后就一直和我分寸不離。我感到非常的窩心。真的希望我可以為她做更多。他讓我很快樂~~我也希望他快樂~~

計程車司機的故事 (June 2, 2012)

今天體會到一個道理。

我跟往常一樣，提早出門去上班。最主要不是我很勤勞。主要是因為我得早點出門打車。要不然到時候競爭對手就會很多，打車就很難了。而且早點出門就不會那麼塞車，可以省時間和省錢 :p 嘿嘿嘿，原來我是有企圖的。嘿嘿嘿。不過也很make sense，對嗎？

哈哈，離題了。那天早上我碰到的司機開得像飛機一樣快。即使路上車很多，他像大蟒蛇一樣穿來穿去。穿穿穿，結果一下子穿到紅綠燈面前。哇，一下子省了十幾分鐘。太好了。可以早點到公司。耶 \(^^)/~~~

忽然有個念頭。。。如果當時我是一個怕死的人，肯定會很介意司機為何這麼不負責任，如果萬一發生什麼事，怎麼辦？鐵定會很生氣司機的做法。然后心情就開始變很差，心裡就會發怒。怨天怨地為何自己那麼倒霉遇到這樣不負責任的司機?????等等等。。。

可是為什麼我卻那麼的歡喜呢？噢噢噢，因為我是想早點到公司處理事情。俗語說：一寸光陰一寸金，寸金難買寸光陰~~~ 省時間省錢。。聽起來很想很勤勞ho？*羞* 其實一點都不。。。*自我暗笑*

我體會到很多事情其實真的是因為你的一念之差而會有不同的結果。所以心態非常重要。如果心態是好的，什麼都是好的。如果心態不好的話，什麼都是壞的。就連好的也變成不好的或者無益處的。

剛才跟我朋友在談天。他說他有一個朋友很可憐。明明身邊就有很多人在旁邊等他，願意幫他。可是如果他不伸出手的話，真的沒有人可以幫他。這讓我想起計程車司機的故事。

也許是因為他心態的關系，他並沒有把這些人視為益處/可以幫助他的人，所以他才沒有把手伸出來。

目標決定心態，心態決定態度，態度決定命運~~

只是今天的一個小體悟~~

破滅的美夢 (may 26, 2012)

美夢成真~~成真后還是可以那麼美麗嗎？有人說現實/真相是殘酷的。。應該沒有人會說現實生活是美麗的吧~~昨天我印証了這一點。一開始很開心，期待接下來可能會發生的事情 *期待中*

人們都說期待越高失望越大。。。這句話是真的！！！因為，我決定放棄了~ 我還是繼續做夢吧~

人心 (May 13, 2012)

那天，我從機場回來，發現一個道理。我家離虹橋機場很近。大概人民幣25左右就到家了。我理解計程車司機的苦衷。他們必須排隊來接客人。有時候得等上一個小時才可以載到乘客。他們租車的時間是用一天天來算的。從成本來算，一定要在一天載越多客人或載多一點長途的才的賺回本錢。因為我明白這個道理，所以每次從虹橋機場坐車的時候，心中都會產生愧疚。哈哈。內心暗地裡說我會給他們一點點的tips作為補償。有一天，我照常從虹橋機場回家。暗地裡我告訴自己，如果司機沒有計較，我就給Tips，如果司機跟我算，我就個少一點或不給。看態度。

之前有一個司機，在我還沒付錢的時候，就警告我他等了很長時間，強制我給他補償。另一個就說叫我看著辦。我隻給他一兩元，意思意思。當然心不甘，情不願的給。那天，那個司機什麼也沒說，我很大方的給了他多5元。他很高興的替我把行李抬出來。

我發現了一個道理。其實很多時候，我們都會幫家人，幫朋友，幫同事等等。有時候內心是沒有要求回報的，有時候是希望有好的待遇。不管幫人的原因是啥，隻要有人來計較，之前的什麼好心腸都是假的。我有一個非常要好的朋友。每每在我很痛苦，很困難的時候她都跳出來幫我。我非常感激他。有一天，發生了不愉快的事情。她開始list出來當初她怎麼對我好。當然是想提醒我不應該這樣那樣對他。這個道理就如計程車司機的一樣。原本我很心肝情願的付出，一旦他跟我計較，之前的什麼好都變得不是那麼好了。當然我以前也有對了這樣說過，所以現在才了解為何那個人對我所說的話那麼反感，而且也沒有達到我原本提醒他的目的。

人啊，就是那麼難搞。。。。

Golf (April 26, 2012)

am in pattaya this week for conference...actually they put 50% work and 50% entertainment...which is very thoughtful of them...who can ever concentrate at a place like this? miss tiffany, red light districts, bars, pubs, musics, beach and the fun list goes on and on and on and on....yesterday, our bosses treated us for a hot afternoon golf...gosh...it was HOT indeed!! i was over-cooked in the hot sun!! well, i was thinking of going out for a fun shopping but since everyone was going, i made myself go as well...oh well...i wouldnt know how fun it would be if i never try..somemore, i cant afford golf, so, WHY NOT?

yesterday, each of us was given a caddy...with our name on the cart and i had my own golf set, personal caddy...i didnt have to do anything, just got in and out of the car, she chose my golf club for me, bring for me, carry my umbrella etc etc etc...it was not as bored as i thought it would be...just the heat made me lazy~~

funny conversations around yesterday....out of 29 people playing, only 3 are female...i felt priviledged :p anyway, i heard many guys conversed like this:

"where's your ball?"

"I couldnt see my ball...it's too far away"

"did you take my ball?"

"Jane, you have ball?" jane replied:"no"

"have you taken my ball?"

i was laughing hilariously inside...may be they didnt know how funny it was, but it was certainly an entertainment to me under the scotching hot sun!!

Hong Kong, a place i once called home (April 21, 2012)

Looking back at old photos...kinda miss HK milk tea~~ i remember i went back to HK last august..didnt know i was in such a terrible environment at that time..hahaha..apartment so small and so expensive, things and food so expensive, mountain people mountain sea, walking walking walking...wow, i only realized after i stay in Shanghai..but it did feel like home when i went back to HK...i guess no matter how bad or good a place is, as long as you have spent some time there, you will still have "home" feeling :) at least for me...

kinda miss HK sometimes...especially food and shopping...i thought i would save a lot of money in Shanghai...because i practically stay home after work and over the weekend...but, sadly, it turned out to be the opposite..hahaha..

GOnna plan a trip to HK soon~~

Getting Gifts (April 21, 2012)

I have been receiving a lot of small gifts lately from my colleagues...from wedding gifts to birth gifts...my office is cluttered with small items...hahah...sometimes i wonder why...then i observed and understood, it's a way to tell people i'm married and i have kids by giving small gifts...they are adorable...lookit the eggs...it's egg inside when people have kids...the dragon is also two small eggs inside...then the boxes, no need to say..it's wedding invitation~~

cute but i can't keep them all..so after i had the delicious snacks inside...i threw the cover away..but i will keep the two cute eggs :p

the best thing about this is: I GET TO EAT...buwahahaha..no wonder i'm round and fat >_<

月亮圆 (March 30, 2012)

朋友的意義是什麼？對我來說是不需要常見面但是有理解他們都在無時無刻的關心我們，想著我們。從來不隱瞞任何事情。有話直說。我很慶幸的是身邊有很多這樣的朋友。是否因為我這樣認為，所以迎來的人都是如此的呢？當然我也有碰到爛朋友。哈哈哈，不過，可能在一些人眼中我也是爛朋友 :p

那天我的朋友們見到我，第一個反應是：“哇~~~你的臉變得好大。好像不小心跌倒，把臉跌大了。”我當時覺得又好氣又好笑。不過也好啦，他們讓我知道我太墮落了。吃太多鳳梨糕和零食的后果。我要努力把臉瘦下來~~~

我的大脸板

shop for food (March 23, 2012)

I shopped for food for the first time two weeks ago...just give it a try because my colleagues told me it's much cheaper to buy online and the best thing is, you don't need to carry them back home. The delivery man will deliver to your door...WOW, that's tempting..so i surfed the web to look for FOOOooooood~~~ :p here's my first batch of junk food :)

somehow, i thought China is much more advanced than many places but sometimes, i have to give my thumb down for something that is so outdated (like banning me from using facebook and blogspot!! aaarrrgggghhhh) anyway, i'm happy with the goods. the only thing is, i feel bad when i see delivery man dropping by with a bike full of boxes behind their back and rushing for delivery. i read an article about life of delivery man...it's not easy, especially in the freezing winter time. The company doesn't provide them with a car, they simply use motorbike and pile stuff up and they have time pressure too..so they have to rush here and there and make sure they don't get complained...sometimes when they couldnt find the buyer, they become nervous coz that means, they will either be late for their next delivery or have to come back to the area...seriously, Shanghai traffic is not that pleasant at all...sometimes, they don't even have time to go to toilet or eat...sigh...life is harsh...i remember once, i gave RMB2 tips to the delivery man, he was SOOooooo happy that he offered to do this and that for me...

I feel bad ~~~

心情故事 (March 21, 2012)

最近有一種懶洋洋的感覺。做什麼都想拖。。。做什麼都不起勁。就很想一天到晚坐在沙發上發呆到腐爛。。。你有沒有這種感覺啊？我生病了嗎？我是不是有什麼問題啊？一直想找出答案，始終不知道為什麼。。。我~~~也許只想有一些時間讓自己頹廢一下而已。

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你有沒有試過喜歡一個人，卻不敢告訴他？只在遠遠的看著他。只要看到他的背影，你的靈魂就像被勾走似的。每天精心的打扮就是希望可以碰到他，和他說話，和他插肩而過也心甘情願。如果看到他，你心裡的小鹿就亂撞。如果和他有機會說說話，你就心跳加速和臉紅，頭腦一片空白忘了自己要說什麼。他的身影和聲音都那麼的迷人~~

這種感覺聽起來好遙遠噢，不過確實曾經有過。發現人長大之后，這些感覺就越來越少了。是因為人們知道現實生活是殘酷的所以都不再作夢了嗎？是否人們都發現喜歡一個人的感覺和現實生活上了解的他是完全不一樣的所以特别失望？

我喜歡這樣的幻想。一旦得到了反而沒有想象中的美麗和美好~~~我再繼續作夢吧~~

2012 CNY tit bits (March 17, 2012)

something wrong with the system...why the photo cannot be vertical one? sigh..Ch*na will be Ch*na...sorry, guys, please tilt your head to the right and see what it says..hehehe..

it's LOUD and CLEAR...I LOVE FOOD..yes  yes, that's me..that's why i took the picture when i saw it~~~ because i love food so much that i ate like dinasaurs..i think i would be broke just to feed myself...now i started to pity my parents on how much money they need to spend on me~~~

THis chinese new year, i didn't get to go back to Kuching...*sob* *Sob* Dad and mum knows i would miss the tit bits so they brought me SOoooo much tit bits!! yum yum..and guess what, i finished them all all by myself in Shanghai (^_^)y guess what, LJ was also so thoughtful that i got a jar of handmade pineapple tarts~~ and guess what, i also finished them all all by myself...

the result?.....I'm FAT and overdose p(T_T)d

BUT I LOVE IT and i thin it's WORTH IT :p 自我感觉良好和堕落的倾向~~ :p

幻想 (March 15, 2012)

很多人對美女充滿了幻想，羨慕，歡喜等等。從小到大，我一直覺得世界上沒有丑人。每一個人對我來說都是特別的。但是人在我心目中會變丑陋是當我發現他的內心是丑陋的。記得中學時期，有人問我覺得某某人漂不漂亮，我都會說他們對我來說都好看。。。。我是很有誠意的回答哦。

在我的公司，同一層樓不同部門有一個美女。我覺得他特別好看的地方是他的皮膚白皙光滑，身材平均，有一對櫻桃紅的嘴唇。我走過都會多看他一眼。前幾天，我在洗手間碰到他。那時候我在排隊，等了很久終於聽到有人要出來了，一打開門，是她~~不過，他出來后就往洗手間門口走出去了。。。當時，我對我心目中的女神的印象破裂了。。。以為只有印度人上完廁所后不洗手，原來美女也會這樣！！

（心目中的女神的印象破裂的畫面）

突然讓我想起了一個故事。有一對俊男美女情侶有一天一起去旅游。在房間的時候女友上了廁所做大號。男友突然無法想象自己心愛的人上廁所的畫面。結果男友再也無法愛她了。聽起來很好笑，很慌妙，可是是真實故事。無奈~~

是誰的問題？ (March 13, 2012)

上星期日晚上在家裡看電視。。其實是在燙衣服順便看電視啦 :p 因為最近天氣很冷，在外面晒的衣服我都會先燙過一次才可以穿。是小時候養成的習慣。因為以前在澳洲讀書的時候，媽媽都會很體貼的為我們燙衣服。她說冬天或下雨天的衣服一定要燙過才可以穿。因為濕度會留在衣服上，到時候穿在身上對身體不好。。。所以，才會想燙。即使是內在美也不放過。

那天看的是比賽的節目。共有九隊，一對兩人。他們全部被放到一個人生地不熟，語言不通的地方完成一系列的考題。對了，他們是在越南。有一對老伴在比賽中發生了很多挫折，可是他們都一直不斷的努力，希望可以追趕上來。太太很樂觀，还安撫丈夫的心情，告訴他別緊張，只要大家努力和不放棄就好了。有一段印象深刻的地方是，他們在准備去下一個考題的时候，路上卻非常非常的塞。老公就对观众說：“如果你沒有耐心的话，千萬別住在越南。。。” 他老婆聽了，就很調皮的說：“如果你對另一半沒有耐心的话，就千萬不要結婚。。。”。 老公聽了沒出聲。

我當時覺得。。。哇，他老婆說的太棒了，太有智慧了。短短一句話，卻包含那麼多的含義。

我聽了，我的想法是老婆在提醒他問題出在他身上，不是塞車或老伴身上。凡是要往內看。

你的看法呢？

自言自语 (March 13, 2012)

你平常除了和家人，同事，路人甲等等溝通以外，你有沒有發現其實自己很少跟自己溝通呢？為什麼？我也不太清楚耶？你確定自己跟自己是最親密的嗎？不見得吧。那天和朋友聊天時，才發現這個問題。他說我在上海很幸福啊，可以有很多自己的時間跟自己聊天。我頭上當時冒出了很多問號？？？他講啥？講哈密？聽不懂。

聽完這樣的對話后，我也沒有想太多。自己怎麼和自己對話呢？我在想，很多時候我的頭腦都在活動中，那個算是對話嗎？結果在晚上睡覺前我發現我。。。在跟我自己對話耶。平時我們都在忙著忙那，都沒有時間靜下來。都是和別人在對話或看電視或是煩惱這個煩惱那個，根本沒有觀察自己的心到底在想什麼。

忽然記得有讀過這樣的報導。它說人為什麼不自己和自己聊天，卻總是要往外跑呢？自己和自己聊天的好處是可以發現自己原來有一些事情沒處理或更了解自己。如果你的談話時正面的，自然而然你就會很快樂。。。

還有，昨晚我發現跟我對話的自己是用客家話的。。。哈哈哈。。。

我的戴眼罩的習慣 (March 11, 2012)

我有戴眼罩的習慣。我睡得淺，只要有一点点的得光芒我就會醒過來。。或者燈沒關我就睡不著了。所以過去幾年我一直帶著眼罩入睡。買了無數的眼罩。也就是因為戴眼罩的習慣，所以才發現原來很多人都有同樣的習慣，市場上才出了各式各樣的眼罩。有些人戴眼罩是為了晚上用它來美容，有些是因為沒有安全感。我就是第二者。以前我一直到處飛來飛去，會住在不同的飯店。我戴眼罩是因為怕半夜起來看到不該看到的。。。哈哈哈，我也想太多了。

兩年前，我的朋友發現了我這個壞習慣，逼我把它改了，不准我再用它。我無法抛弃我的眼罩 。。。試過了好几次，最終就是很早起來。有一天我發現自己太依賴眼罩了。。。多數是來自於自己沒有安全感而產生的。我在古晉時，窗口都是沒有窗帘的，可是我都可以在古晉那麼亮的地方睡得如死豬一般。我發覺真的是时候后戒掉這個壞習慣了。現在過了半年多了，我已經不再用它了 \(^^)/

上個禮拜，我一個朋友送我一個很可愛的禮物。。猜猜是什麼？

是一個眼罩~~

粉紅色的眼罩是我用了大概兩年的眼罩。我很喜歡它，是透氣的（很講究哦），夠厚（完全是暗的，不會感覺天亮了），夠軟（戴在耳朵不痛，蓋著眼睛很舒服）和夠好看。果然是眼罩達人。嘿嘿。。。。下面那個是朋友送的。我想我不再需要它了。如果你想要眼罩的話或有認識的人在用眼罩，請告訴我，我可以把它送給你~~~不過還是希望大家可以依賴自己 :)

道德與不道德 (March 10, 2012)

那天，有個年紀不小的人說他以前考試的時候，成績還不錯，唯有一科是無法突破的。那時候他的公司規定員工一定要考到當時最有名的會計集團。還蠻多科的所以他差不多每個周末都埋沒在溫習功課中。成績出來后，老板把所有員工都叫去喝酒慶祝，順便宣告大家的成績。轮到他的時候，老板說：“哇，這個是當大老板的料子！！！” 就喊他的名字。他很驚訝~~~在想到底自己做了什麼事情让老板這麼夸他？！忽然，老板在接下去說：“ 道德。。。拿了49分~~~” 哦哦哦哦，原來如此。

聽了這個故事，其他年紀也不小的智慧者一同叫到：“你果然是做生意的料子。道德好的人唯有幫人家打工而已。。。看，你今晚無道德的說了一堆無道德的話。。不過還挺有意思的。。。”

我無語。。。。我在自我檢討。。。因為我的道德是那麼多科目中拿得最高分的~~~我是否注定一輩子做別人的奴隸？！ (T_T)

3838 三八婦女節 (March 9, 2012)

昨天是三八婦女節。一直不理解為何會有這種節日？看來可能又是一個商機。不知是哪個聰明的商人發明的。哈哈。不過無論是哪個動機，我都無所謂，主要的是我們昨天有放假~~~ 本來是放半天的，由於公司比較為員工“著想”，所以把青年日一起放。\(^^)/

放假前，我問了一個男同事他打算怎麼過？不是問他如何慶祝。放假嘛，總有事情做呀。不過他給我的答案也蠻可愛的。他說：“沒什麼耶。我覺得我不應該有假放耶。因為我不是女人，也不是青年”。我當時無語~~。放假不一定是要為了自己，也可以是為了家人或另一半。也許是因為他是單生又是外國人的原因所以也沒差啦。

我開玩笑的回答道：“如果是這樣，我只可以放半天假啰~~”。。。納悶。。感覺好老。。。。 (T_T)

可能你也在想為何有這麼特殊的節日吧？所以很善良很主動的我，抽空幫大家找到了答案。。。tada~~

3月8日是國際勞動婦女節，又稱三八節、婦女節、三八國際婦女節,是世界各國婦女爭取和平、平等、發展的節日。一個世紀以來，各國婦女為爭取自身的權利做出了不懈的努力。

我還一直以為三八婦女日是讓婦女們有休息的一天來真正的三八一番。我太沒有見識了>_<

願望 (March 8, 2012)

（唯美生命赞歌风景）

昨晚，聽到這樣的對話。。。。

我（一個爸爸）問我九歲的兒子你長大后要成為什麼？兒子猶豫了一下回答道：“我要為社會付出貢獻”。聽了我很開心。九歲就有這麼成熟的想法。將來一定不得了。

另一個爸爸說他問他十六歲的兒子他以后要成為什麼？以前他的回答是他要成為一個救火員。一年后，他說他想成為警察。他~聽了無語。也就讓他兒子自己決定。樂觀來看，是好事。兒子既然那麼寬容。

你以前這個年紀的願望是什麼呢？我沒有太大的願望，當然也沒有那麼寬容的想法，我只想身邊的人快樂，做什麼都無所謂。我記得小時候，我有很多的願望，很多的幻想。其中一個印象深刻的是：我長大后要成為世界上最多巴比娃娃的人。我要把全世界最漂亮的巴比娃娃買下來，填滿整個房子。現在年紀大了，覺得巴比娃娃不中用了。人真的因為時間，經歷而改變。。

當時間的流逝，我們往往身不由己的成為一個我們從沒想過的人。我想，有目的還是必須的，人最主要要有自己的原則，才不會失去目標和方向。

我的可愛的侄女有一天說他的願望是想成為仙女。多可愛啊~~

如果可以的话，我也想。。。。。

一個圍巾的故事 (March 8, 2012)

I have decided not to use dian dian anymore...and want to keep everything is one post..so i will be copying and pasting stuff from my dian dian...not much though..hahaha

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昨晚我和一群年紀不小的朋友吃飯， 其實是我大哥的朋友，我應該算是年紀最輕的一個，也是最沒有人生經驗的一個。 他們的談話內容很有趣。 很真實。 都在談人生經驗。 當然我沒說太多。因为他們吃的米飯比我還多呢！！ 我發現，人啊， 真的到了一個年紀經歷了很多感觸和感嘆就越多。 他們真的從生活上學了很多。 看破了很多以前覺得很重要的東西，現在對他們來說,一點都不重要，反而說最終得到的不重要，是過程比較重要。 我同意,可是無法理解。



其中一個智慧者分享了一個他的故事：



他說一個月前他們一家人去歐洲玩。他的太太是一個美女。 為他生了兩個可愛的兒子， 一個九歲，一個八歲.他覺得自己很幸福。 因為自己老大不小才做了爸爸。 不過他八歲兒子是有自閉症的。以前的他,覺得生活品質最重要。什麼都要用好的,吃好的,跟兄弟姐妹和爸媽感情也還好而已，沒有特別想在一起。可是，自從他五年前發現自己的兒子有自閉症后，他對人生改觀了。 他說有自閉症的人通常對一間事情或東西很執著。他在他兒子身上看到以前的自己，才發現那種痛苦。所以他決定把一些物質和身外物看的輕一點來減少自己的痛苦，同時把注意力放在家人身上。他發覺他快樂多了。



有一天,他們在歐洲的人造河邊玩，突然一陣大風把他脖子上的圍巾吹到河裡了。他也沒覺得可惜，就想算了。可是他的八歲兒子突然冒出了一句話是他覺得很感動的，他說：“把圍巾取回來”。他感動的不是兒子要把圍巾取回來，而是他終於開口說話了。他為了讓兒子說下去，就回答說：“好啊，可是怎麼取回？” 兒子猶豫了一下說：“游泳”。他又再次被感動。就問：“好。誰游呢？” 兒子又猶豫了一下說：“爸爸”。他非常高興與兒子有這樣的互動，就開始說道：“可是天氣很冷，爸爸不想游泳，兒子你幫爸爸吧。” 兒子想了一下說"不要"。于是,他們就展開了全家的互動。他和八歲的兒子到河邊去，九歲兒子和媽媽去附近的公園找樹枝。終於在大家的努力之下，找到了一根樹枝。爸爸握著八歲兒子的小手一同嘗試把圍巾勾起來。經過很大的努力后，在圍巾還沒沉下去的時候，他們把圍巾勾起來了。大家很高興。爸爸把圍巾捏干，交給八歲的兒子說，“這是你要的圍巾”。兒子看了看說：“我不想要”，就走開了。爸爸沒有覺得很傷心，反而讓他領悟了：人的努力不是為了得到一個東西，重要的是過程。



雖然只是一個簡單的故事，卻有那麼大的領悟。

迷上了你〜

我最近迷上了YIF。第一次看到他是在康熙我來了。他是表演魔術的。你一定覺得奇怪，魔術不是小時候才喜歡的嗎？哦今天年紀也不小了，還會被魔術欺騙？太沒智慧了吧？！看了YIF的夢幻魔術之後，哦才發現魔術是不分男女老少，不分年齡，不分種族。。啥也不分，一樣可以吸引很多人〜

以前最討厭看的魔術是那種很誇張的。什麼在大魚缸裏裝滿了水，魔術師把自己鎖在裡面，再用黑布把魚缸蓋起來。。。他變，他變，他變變變〜一會兒，魔術師就從一個角落出現。不知為何，這種魔術雖然很妙，可是不能讓我很感動，很震撼。。可能跟我平時生活很難連接起來〜

YIF不一樣，他總是把我們身邊的東西做連接。每次看到他的魔術，雖然沒有大型的表演，可是每次看完後都讓我很震撼，很感動。他真的很厲害！而且超帥滴〜他長得很像漫畫裏的美男子，眼神很神秘，很夢幻。我昨天在網路上一直看他的短片。。真的不可思議。他平常在台北路上出，為路人甲表演。每次看完他的表演後，路人都發出不可思議的笑容和表情〜 希望有一天，我也可以在台北碰到他，現場為我表演他精心製作的夢幻魔術〜*祈禱中*