Friday, March 6, 2009

Is it the same for you?

Things always happen unexpectedly in life....some people may have already planned ahead but still, even with plans ahead, sometimes you still need to re-assess if you need to change your plans...be it good or bad, be it the way you plan or not, life is always about decisions decisions decisions...you wanna decide what you want to have for breakfast, lunch and dinner, decide what you want to do with your career or even life...decide what religion best suits you, what clothes you gonna wear, friends you wanna befriend with, who you are gonna marry etc etc etc...life is always full of uncertainties and it all depends on how you are going to take it and make it the way you want it to be...all the decisions and opportunities are in your hand... some people may not have plan and i'm that kind of person...i take things as they come...this has both pros and cons...pro: you tend to worry less about life and only worry when something hits you...but you have to be prepared in case the impact is big....; less disappointment if things don't turn out good because you don't have plan to achieve in the beginning; easily satisfied because if good things happen, they become bonuses to you. Con: you become aimless and don't know what to do when something unexpected happen; you will find it hard to make decision...taking forever to try to think and decide; indefinite dead brain cells; tend to worry and still aimless..... How many of you are like me? if you are like me, i strongly suggest you to try to figure out yourself now...try to get to know yourself, know wat you want, know what you are like etc...if you are the opposite of me, good for you...this will be a reference for you to know how ppl like me feel :) ChEERs

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm you. You are me..... so u know my answer to your question liao...

Tracy said...

I'm same as you too. No planning ahead just flow with heart. So sometimes will feel aimles and feel miserable to deal with the uncertainties.