On a day like this (June 3, 2012)

today is a beautiful day~~ i woke up early this morning and decided to have a cup of good coffee and some sandwich for breakfast (actually, i planned to use the "reload card" given by my co as ang pao during CNY...just want to make sure it's not wasted in case it goes expired :p)

the sunshine outside looked so bright :) weather was good..it was not too hot or too cold..just right for today~~ i ventured out and took my starbucks bottle that i bought in HK last year....tada, below was my bfast at star bucks while reading magazine...not so crowded yet because it was still early~~ after that i went to the nearby supermarket to do a small grocery shopping...i needed to buy some eggs, veggie and fruits...i'm not a healthy person because i ate too much meat, so i decided to make a small change on a day like this~~just 3 mins heat type of person, i know >_<

Before i ventured home, i decided to take a short walk to the nearby local stores to get some plants...so i walked through the nice parks with flowers blooming and all types of different colours plant...yes, it's still spring~~ it was a relaxing walk..a short walk turned into a looooong walk coz i miscalculated again..hehehe..but nvm, i needed some exercise after such heavy breakfast!!! after 20 - 30 mins walk, i found myself arriving at an unknown place~~ it's really local...and has many local stores and a wet market!!! i didnt know~~ oh, this is really really interesting, so i shopped again at the local store and bought some cheap kitchen ware...something that would cost CNY5 in carrefour is only CNY2 here!! wow...then i saw this plum (杨梅) that i wanted to buy last week and was scared away by the price..but here, it was cheap so i bought 500g... then i bought 3 small green plants from the florist~~ i love them so much coz they are so greenie~~~i will plant them with all my love :D

Look how they spice up my place~~

快樂就這麼簡單 (June 2, 2012)

這是那天在泰國拍的照片。那時候我們到一個孤兒院幫忙。說也奇怪，右邊這個小女孩第一眼看到我的時候就跑過來抱著我不放 。然后就一直和我分寸不離。我感到非常的窩心。真的希望我可以為她做更多。他讓我很快樂~~我也希望他快樂~~

計程車司機的故事 (June 2, 2012)

今天體會到一個道理。

我跟往常一樣，提早出門去上班。最主要不是我很勤勞。主要是因為我得早點出門打車。要不然到時候競爭對手就會很多，打車就很難了。而且早點出門就不會那麼塞車，可以省時間和省錢 :p 嘿嘿嘿，原來我是有企圖的。嘿嘿嘿。不過也很make sense，對嗎？

哈哈，離題了。那天早上我碰到的司機開得像飛機一樣快。即使路上車很多，他像大蟒蛇一樣穿來穿去。穿穿穿，結果一下子穿到紅綠燈面前。哇，一下子省了十幾分鐘。太好了。可以早點到公司。耶 \(^^)/~~~

忽然有個念頭。。。如果當時我是一個怕死的人，肯定會很介意司機為何這麼不負責任，如果萬一發生什麼事，怎麼辦？鐵定會很生氣司機的做法。然后心情就開始變很差，心裡就會發怒。怨天怨地為何自己那麼倒霉遇到這樣不負責任的司機?????等等等。。。

可是為什麼我卻那麼的歡喜呢？噢噢噢，因為我是想早點到公司處理事情。俗語說：一寸光陰一寸金，寸金難買寸光陰~~~ 省時間省錢。。聽起來很想很勤勞ho？*羞* 其實一點都不。。。*自我暗笑*

我體會到很多事情其實真的是因為你的一念之差而會有不同的結果。所以心態非常重要。如果心態是好的，什麼都是好的。如果心態不好的話，什麼都是壞的。就連好的也變成不好的或者無益處的。

剛才跟我朋友在談天。他說他有一個朋友很可憐。明明身邊就有很多人在旁邊等他，願意幫他。可是如果他不伸出手的話，真的沒有人可以幫他。這讓我想起計程車司機的故事。

也許是因為他心態的關系，他並沒有把這些人視為益處/可以幫助他的人，所以他才沒有把手伸出來。

目標決定心態，心態決定態度，態度決定命運~~

只是今天的一個小體悟~~

破滅的美夢 (may 26, 2012)

美夢成真~~成真后還是可以那麼美麗嗎？有人說現實/真相是殘酷的。。應該沒有人會說現實生活是美麗的吧~~昨天我印証了這一點。一開始很開心，期待接下來可能會發生的事情 *期待中*

人們都說期待越高失望越大。。。這句話是真的！！！因為，我決定放棄了~ 我還是繼續做夢吧~

人心 (May 13, 2012)

那天，我從機場回來，發現一個道理。我家離虹橋機場很近。大概人民幣25左右就到家了。我理解計程車司機的苦衷。他們必須排隊來接客人。有時候得等上一個小時才可以載到乘客。他們租車的時間是用一天天來算的。從成本來算，一定要在一天載越多客人或載多一點長途的才的賺回本錢。因為我明白這個道理，所以每次從虹橋機場坐車的時候，心中都會產生愧疚。哈哈。內心暗地裡說我會給他們一點點的tips作為補償。有一天，我照常從虹橋機場回家。暗地裡我告訴自己，如果司機沒有計較，我就給Tips，如果司機跟我算，我就個少一點或不給。看態度。

之前有一個司機，在我還沒付錢的時候，就警告我他等了很長時間，強制我給他補償。另一個就說叫我看著辦。我隻給他一兩元，意思意思。當然心不甘，情不願的給。那天，那個司機什麼也沒說，我很大方的給了他多5元。他很高興的替我把行李抬出來。

我發現了一個道理。其實很多時候，我們都會幫家人，幫朋友，幫同事等等。有時候內心是沒有要求回報的，有時候是希望有好的待遇。不管幫人的原因是啥，隻要有人來計較，之前的什麼好心腸都是假的。我有一個非常要好的朋友。每每在我很痛苦，很困難的時候她都跳出來幫我。我非常感激他。有一天，發生了不愉快的事情。她開始list出來當初她怎麼對我好。當然是想提醒我不應該這樣那樣對他。這個道理就如計程車司機的一樣。原本我很心肝情願的付出，一旦他跟我計較，之前的什麼好都變得不是那麼好了。當然我以前也有對了這樣說過，所以現在才了解為何那個人對我所說的話那麼反感，而且也沒有達到我原本提醒他的目的。

人啊，就是那麼難搞。。。。

Golf (April 26, 2012)

am in pattaya this week for conference...actually they put 50% work and 50% entertainment...which is very thoughtful of them...who can ever concentrate at a place like this? miss tiffany, red light districts, bars, pubs, musics, beach and the fun list goes on and on and on and on....yesterday, our bosses treated us for a hot afternoon golf...gosh...it was HOT indeed!! i was over-cooked in the hot sun!! well, i was thinking of going out for a fun shopping but since everyone was going, i made myself go as well...oh well...i wouldnt know how fun it would be if i never try..somemore, i cant afford golf, so, WHY NOT?

yesterday, each of us was given a caddy...with our name on the cart and i had my own golf set, personal caddy...i didnt have to do anything, just got in and out of the car, she chose my golf club for me, bring for me, carry my umbrella etc etc etc...it was not as bored as i thought it would be...just the heat made me lazy~~

funny conversations around yesterday....out of 29 people playing, only 3 are female...i felt priviledged :p anyway, i heard many guys conversed like this:

"where's your ball?"

"I couldnt see my ball...it's too far away"

"did you take my ball?"

"Jane, you have ball?" jane replied:"no"

"have you taken my ball?"

i was laughing hilariously inside...may be they didnt know how funny it was, but it was certainly an entertainment to me under the scotching hot sun!!

Hong Kong, a place i once called home (April 21, 2012)

Looking back at old photos...kinda miss HK milk tea~~ i remember i went back to HK last august..didnt know i was in such a terrible environment at that time..hahaha..apartment so small and so expensive, things and food so expensive, mountain people mountain sea, walking walking walking...wow, i only realized after i stay in Shanghai..but it did feel like home when i went back to HK...i guess no matter how bad or good a place is, as long as you have spent some time there, you will still have "home" feeling :) at least for me...

kinda miss HK sometimes...especially food and shopping...i thought i would save a lot of money in Shanghai...because i practically stay home after work and over the weekend...but, sadly, it turned out to be the opposite..hahaha..

GOnna plan a trip to HK soon~~