Saturday, November 15, 2008

Friends

Have you ever found that, as you get older, you find it harder to meet a new friend whom you could have a connection with, whom you could share every little detail of you life, whom you could trust and have fun with, whom you could share your deepest and truest feeling, whom will help you when you are in trouble etc etc etc...well, i came to realise that most of my closest friends are from school days and from my very first job where everyone was still fresh out from schools~~~of coz there are also some which we couldnt really connect to and lost touch alas....but i tried my best :)

last night, i went out with my old friend, whom i have known since 18 yrs old....it's been so many years and in between, we didnt keep in touch for 4 or 5 yrs...still we remain close...we share alot of things and a lot of fun...and i realised that with old friends, eventhough you may not have kept in touch for quite sometime, when you meet up, you still have plenty of things to say and do....the feeling of awkwardness just doesnt exist...i also remember when i met up with my OLDEST friend i know of since kindergarden, we had endless things to say...i had no idea what we said, it was not important :) lucky for me, i have alot of friends from school days and we remain close...and i also have friends from work which i treasured until now :) it's not easy to meet nice friends in your career..but i did meet them...:) hope they think the same as me :)

I was just chatting with another friend of mine....it seems that we all had the same problem...most of us find it difficult to make friends with colleagues...you don't know if he/she is geniunely sincere to you or secretly sabotaging you, you don't know if whatever you tell him/her will be the highlights of the next day's lunch topic and suddenly, you may become the laughing stock of the whole company....to some ppl, friends are just friends and friends can come and go....but to me, i treasure them as people and how they make my life a pleasant and memorable one....haha...mayb that is why i have a lot more old friends than new friends....

I wanna take the opportunity to tell all my friends....YOU ARE THE BEST....after me...hehehe... i hope our friendship will continue to bloom and last forever and ever :D

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Anonymous said...

wah, so true!

1 true friend is better than 1 bunch of rotten ones ;)

Anonymous said...

yeah, i know i am one of the best. hiak! hiak!

i also think old friends are better than new. it just sparks when we get together.

friendship forever!

Tracy said...

Agree! All my friends now is friends from the primary & secondary school. And I usually hang out with ex-ey colleague. :)

Anonymous said...

TRUE... that why you are my close friend, whom i still contact with... and you are the first batch of friend known from work.. and it is true friend... now on... i get to know less and less friends, collegeau is just a collegeau whom you can talk nonsense in office and after work just remain as stranger on the road...